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Duke’s Mixture 12.01.2021: Currently & More

 

Duke's Mixture 12.01.2021: Currently & More

Sweet friends, it’s the first of the month, which means it’s time for Duke’s Mixture 12.01.2021.  In this edition, I am joining my friend Anne at In Residence again for her monthly Currently link-up.  Today we are sharing some holiday currentlies – decorating, feeling, sending, smelling, and wrapping.  And I’m combining Currently with a Duke’s Mixture of other things.  Throwing in a little hodgepodge and a whole lot of gratitude.  I hope these posts are as much fun to read as they are to write!!

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CURRENTLY 12.2021

 

Decorating…

the front porch.  For now.  We are going to be in Ft. Worth helping Brennyn and Mustafa with baby Declan (due to make his debut 12.20.2021) during the holidays.  Have decided not to drag out all of the Christmas decorations when the kitties will be the only ones home to enjoy them.  Hope to at least put out some snowmen and snowflake decorations to get me through til Valentine’s Day!!

Duke's Mixture 12.01.2021: Currently & More
Duke's Mixture 12.01.2021: Currently & More
Feeling…

all over the place.  Happily anticipating hugging my mom and mother-in-law.  Anxious to hug my shiny new grandson in less than 3 weeks now…once he is born!!  A little sad to know I will be away from home on Christmas.  And will miss seeing Lucia and Cami open presents.  But tickled that I will be with Cady when she opens hers!!  Little bit concerned about flying with this silly virus still causing problems all over the country.  But we have our boosters on board.

Sending…

copies of our book of the month to gals in my online book club.  Each month the members of “Come Read With Me” vote for our next read.  Then I have a giveaway for a copy of the winning title.  I always pose a question to the group and the member with the closest answer wins a copy of the book.  The question this month was “How many Christmases have I spent entirely alone?”  And this month, there were 3 winners!!

Our book for December is The Santa Suit by Mary Kay Andrews.  Some months our voting ends in a tie and we have to have a run-off.  These girls make the voting so much fun!!  This month there was a clear winner and because I am the book club boss, I was privy ahead of time as to which book was going to win.  So I started The Santa Suit a little early.  Interested to see where this story is going to go.  Our second place book was another seasonal title, The Christmas Bookshop by Jenny Colgan.  Hoping to get around to it, too, before the season is behind us.

   

Smelling…

all the holiday fragrances at Bath and Body Works.  As you may know if we have been pals for awhile, almost every Sunday PC and I go to church then walk around the outlet mall.  One of the stores we always visit is Bath and Body Works.  Not sure who loves that store more…PC or me!!  Some Sundays we just go in to sniff.  Other Sundays we go in to do some serious smelling and buying.  Last weekend everything in the store was 50% off, so we loaded up on pillow and body mists.  I really believe spraying them on our pillows is helping us sleep better.  We are currently using BBW’s Sleep pillow and body mist (chamomile-bergamot) from their Aromatherapy collection.  But they are all delicious.

Wrapping…

not a darn thing.  Yet.  In the 9-day window between our trip to Mom’s and our trip to Ft. Worth, I am going to need to do a whole lotta shopping and wrapping.  I do have PC’s gifts purchased.  But just haven’t gotten out the wrapping paper yet.

And Wrapping Up…

In another sense of the word, I’m looking forward to wrapping up 2021 and seeing what 2022 holds.  Hope you will join me for 10 on the 10th where we will be talking about the holidays and anticipating the new year.  Be sure to grab the graphic below for your post.

December’s 10 on the 10th

Here are the questions:

  • In what ways do you decorate for the winter holiday season?  Do you use traditional colors or have your own color scheme?  Is there a theme to your decorating?
  • Share a family holiday tradition or recipe.  Is there something new you plan to try this year?
  • Do you have a favorite Christmas book, movie, song or TV show?  Why is it special to you?  Is there a popular holiday book, program or movie you have never seen?
  • How do you handle the stress of the holidays?  Do you have some go-to for restoring calm to your life when things get crazy?
  • What will you wear over the holidays?  Do you dress up for New Year’s Eve?
  • How do you feel about snow?  What are the chances you will see a white Christmas?  Do you enjoy any snow day activities?  What will the weather be like where you live in this last month of the year?
  • Do you have a gift-giving budget?  For how many people do buy gifts?  Do you buy for the postman, your hair dresser, nail tech, children’s teachers?  When do you open gift?  Who is the hardest person you buy for?
  • If you could give a kind of impossible gift to someone, what would it be?  Perhaps something beyond your price range?  Or something you can’t buy.  Something intangible.
  • As we bid farewell to 2021, what was your biggest success this year?  Will you be making goals or resolutions or plans for 2022?  If so, what will some of them be?
  • Describe 2021 in 3 words.  Name 3 things you wish for in 2022.

Duke's Mixture 12.01.2021: Currently & More

HodgePodge

 

Here are the questions to this week’s Hodgepodge from my friend Joyce at From this Side of the Pond. Hodgepodge is a weekly series going live on Wednesdays but I do well to participate once a month.  Joyce’s questions are always so much fun, though, that I would really miss it if I didn’t join in now and then.  After reading one of Joyce’s recent blog posts, I discovered we have much in common.  Looking forward to getting to know her better beyond hodgepodge in the future.

From this Side of the Pond
Gift Giver

1. When it comes to gift giving are you more of a ‘create something from scratch’ or a ‘buy something in a shop’ kind of giver? Tell about a favorite homemade gift you’ve given or one you’ve received.   In my younger days when money was scarce, I tended to make things to give as gifts.  For a length of time, I made cross-stitch pictures for loved ones.  Baby announcements for my nieces and nephews.  Cross-stitched quotes or verses for my parents.

2. Do you have the ‘gift of gab’? Is that a blessing or a curse?  When I am comfortable, I can be quite talkative.  And even make sense.  But when I am with people I am not comfortable around, I might be blabbing up a storm but can say the darned things!!  A lot of which don’t make a lick of sense.  Being able to talk with anyone at any time would be a blessing from my point of view.

And That’s a Wrap

3. What’s something you have going on that you need/want to ‘wrap up’ this month? Not sure it is going to happen, but I need to wrap up the online notary public course.  You might remember I registered to become a notary in order to make a little extra money.  Turns out Texas notaries only make $6 a throw.  So I am not going to get rich by any means!!

I signed up and started an optional online course about the policies and procedures for Texas notaries.  Had a month to complete it by 10.22.2021.  Which I thought meant I would have through 10.22 to finish.  I was lacking 2 units when I signed on that morning to complete the course only to find out my time had expired.  Now I have to pay the registration fee again and start all over from the beginning.  And then I need to earn 8 notary commissions to break even on the course, and earn 14 more commissions to pay for the notary kit.

4. A food you love that is ‘wrapped’ in some way?  My first thought was an egg roll.  But then I realized burritos are the epitome of a wrapped food!!  And El Paso, Texas is the home of many a tasty burrito.  We just started sampling burritos for our burrito run activity on my autumn bucket list.  Our neighborhood Casa de Torta wraps all kinds of goodies inside their homemade tortillas to create some mighty awesome burritos.

Hope

5. December is upon us…share something here (quote, verse, poem, song lyric, your own thoughts) related to the word hope.

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6. Insert your own random thought here.   My nephew Jacob shared this in his Instagram story today.  When I bragged on him to my brother (his dad), Kevin told me he had originally shared it with Jacob.  And sends similar things to both of his adult kids a couple of times a week.  Good parenting, Kevin!!  Hope you will take just a second to follow the link to read “7 Signs That You Are Doing Better Than You Think You Are.”  Click here.

Moving right along in this potpourri of a post, here’s what I am thankful for this Thursday.

STRAIGHT FROM MY GRATITUDE JOURNAL

 

My Thankful Thursday posts are usually made up of ‘gratefuls’ I’ve listed in my gratitude journal over the week or month, whatever length of time has elapsed since my last Thankful Thursday post. In this case, it has been a couple of weeks since I wrote my last Thankful Thursday, here.  Rest assured, though, there are always lots of things to be thankful for even if I don’t get around to writing a post about them all.

Joining Rebecca Jo at Knit by God’s Hand and Jennifer at All 4 Boys in sharing the hosting responsibilities for the Thankful Thursday series.  Some weeks, you might discover posts from all 3 of us, other Thursdays, it might just be one of us hosting.  Sometimes you might find a post from me on a Friday!!  But whatever the case, YOU are always welcome to join us!!

STRAIGHT FROM MY GRATITUDE JOURNAL

I did a lot of thinking about health in November.  My mom had lots of ups and downs, I had several annual preventative measures, Lauren is always battling health issues, and Brennyn’s family was sick with some kind of stomach bug.  She is in her 36th week of pregnancy and we are hoping baby Declan can stay in place 4 more weeks.

This week I am especially thankful for:
  • 5 senses that were miraculously created and make life more pleasurable
  • my relatively strong and resilient body that has carried me through 63 years of life
  • healthy children and grandchildren
  • vaccinations of all sorts but currently the Covid vaccine
  • a few minutes quiet in my days
  • sleeping well naturally, without melatonin
  • PC’s relationships with the girls and their girls
  • beautiful weather with afternoons in the upper 60s and low 70s
  • Sharon and Davettte listening to my woes
  • crafting with Valerie
  • Kevin being there for Mom over and over and over and over
  • HelloFresh
And…
  • baby Declan is in a higher percentile for weight…he is not going to be as small as we feared
  • Paul went with me to talk to the lawyer about mediating for help with our pool
  • baby Mason, who Brennyn revived with 17 minutes of CPR at birth 2 years ago, is thriving
  • Fluff, Purrsimmony and Purrsnickitty and now Pumpkin, Lauren’s pup
  • pain in my neck and back are much relieved
  • normal mammogram
  • Cami asked to talk with me on the phone, told me she missed me
  • potato soup and the means to buy, prepare and enjoy our Thanksgiving feast
  • PC helping me cook
  • meeting my StepBet challenge and winning $9.46
  • popcorn
  • sweet, sweet message from Valerie and the book club gals
  • A+ report from hygienist on my dental hygiene

Ta-da, that is just a few of the things I have been blessed with in the last few weeks.

YOUR TURN

 

Would love to hear some of your responses to the Currently prompts, or the HodgePodge questions or to read what you’re especially thankful for.  Hope you will also link up your Thankful Thursday post with us and stop by to visit Anne, Joyce, Rebecca and Cathy and some of the others linked up below.

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Well, I am a day late on my ironing.  And not a soul has stepped up to start working on my pile for me!!  Soooo, going to get that ironing board out.  Anyone else iron clothes before you put them in the suitcase?

Hope your first days of December are pleasant ones.  Thank you for warming my heart with your visit.

Hugs and kisses,

leslie

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I am an aspiring blogger and children's author, wife, mother, daughter, sister, - in-law, responsible pet owner and recently retired elementary school librarian. I hope to figure out the next chapter of my life as I transition from crazy, busy work world onto totally idle retirement and now to something in-between.

Comments

  1. Leanne | www.crestingthehill.com.au

    December 2, 2021 at 2:23 am

    Hi Leslie – well that was certainly a mixed bag of interesting updates and lots of Christmas and end of year thoughts. You must be so excited to meet that new little grandson and I’m sure he will be an absolute delight for all of you. Nothing beats a newborn for snuggles! Enjoy your time with family and the preparations leading up to it.

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  2. Kellyann c Rohr

    December 2, 2021 at 4:23 am

    You are such a talented writer Leslie! I am excited for your new grandson, Declan! A boy!!! I can only imagine how excited you are!
    xo,
    Kellyann

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  3. ShootingStarsMag

    December 2, 2021 at 5:55 am

    I hope your upcoming trips go well and everyone stays nice and healthy. That’s great that Declan won’t be as small as you’d all feared!!!

    I have most of the gifts in my house wrapped – I need to get some shipped out ASAP though.

    -Lauren

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  4. Deb

    December 2, 2021 at 6:41 am

    Hope your trips go well and that baby Declan arrives at just the right time! Oh how exciting to be there for when he is born – that first cuddle is the absolute best isn’t it? I need to start wrapping the very few gifts that I already have and concentrate on buying the ones that are still missing!

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  5. Dara

    December 2, 2021 at 6:45 am

    Hope you have a great time on your trip. Ours went well, considering! And now we have another one planned for winter break. I love that you give away your reading group book, very fun!

    Reply
  6. Joanne

    December 2, 2021 at 6:56 am

    I enjoyed the Santa Suit and have Jenny’s book in my book basket to read this month. I’m pretty excited to see these questions for December! Now to start working on my answers.

    Reply
  7. Lisa Elliott

    December 2, 2021 at 8:04 am

    Yes! I always iron before I pack :-). You have a busy month planned. I haven’t decorated yet nor have I started shopping. I’ve got to get my behind in gear this weekend!

    Reply
  8. Rebecca Jo Vincent

    December 2, 2021 at 9:13 am

    I just clicked on the link for The Santa Suit & that’s the first time the book is cheaper than the Kindle edition – crazy!
    Copying your 10 on 10 questions now 🙂

    Reply
  9. Kristin

    December 2, 2021 at 11:45 am

    Oh goodness, this is such a great post! I’ve been lacking the extra time to make my blogging rounds so I am pleased that this is the post I started with on my rounds today. First up, I love Mary Kay Andrews and I totally forgot that she has a new book out!! And a holiday themed one to boot!

    And I really needed the 7 Signs That You Are Doing Better Than You Think. Oh girlie!! How I needed that. And your gratitude post! I will definitely be tuning in to that more often.

    xoxo

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  10. Marsha Banks

    December 2, 2021 at 1:24 pm

    Oh, Leslie, you write the best posts. They always resonate with me. I remember years we left home the day after Christmas to travel to our daughter’s house. It was such an abrupt end to the holiday. I’m hoping baby Declan stays out and will include you in my prayers.

    I am grateful you have come into my life. You make me think and be still.

    http://marshainthemiddle.com/

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  11. jodie filogomo

    December 2, 2021 at 5:39 pm

    It’s so wonderful you get to see your mom again soon Leslie. It’s one of the things I’m thankful for that mine lives close and we get to see each other every week. In fact, there are some weeks she gets tired of me, haha!!
    OXOX
    Jodie
    http://www.jtouchofstyle.com

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  12. Jill

    December 3, 2021 at 5:23 am

    So much goodness in this post! I’m so excited for your upcoming trips and the arrival of your grandson! I haven’t read a book since July and you’ve inspired me to change that and pick up The Santa Suit! I think we all need that hope quote right now.

    Jill – Doused in Pink

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  13. Juhli

    December 3, 2021 at 4:31 pm

    A baby for Christmas – how wonderful (and exhausting) but so glad you can be there to be part of it.

    Reply
  14. Mica

    December 3, 2021 at 9:48 pm

    I hope the trips go well! it’s a shame you won’t be home for Christmas but nice that you will still be with family! 🙂

    Hope you are having a good weekend! It’s a busy but fun one here with a few events!

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  15. Amy Johnson

    December 4, 2021 at 7:16 am

    Such a cute front porch. I would imagine not decorating the house for Christmas would be a relief, but also kind of a bummer too. it’s nice to look at all those decorations before Christmas. Have fun on your trip.

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  16. Jennifer Smith

    December 5, 2021 at 8:09 pm

    That “update” on baby Mason is precious!! Thanks for including. And almost time for that next precious baby…can’t wait to “meet” Mr. Declan – be sure to share all the photos:) The front porch looks nice. I never think of snowmen when I think of Texas…but I do remember you guys had some crazy weather last year!! And, my brother can “talk to anyone about anything”….it really is a gift. One I definitely do NOT have! Here’s to a wonderful week ahead!! (planning to join 10 on the 10th – fingers crossed!)

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  17. Veronica Lee

    December 7, 2021 at 7:45 am

    Have fun on your trip! A baby for Christmas is such a blessed gift!

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  18. Gail

    December 7, 2021 at 11:56 pm

    Loved this post! How special to have a new grandchild around Christmas. We have one on the way – Olive, due in March.
    Hope you have a good time in Fort Worth. We will be at home for Christmas and having family round on Boxing Day (the day after Christmas Day).
    My most dreaded task is wrapping the presents ! I’m not very good at it, particularly with difficult shapes.
    Hope to join you for 10 on 10, the questions look fun.

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  19. Natasha

    December 8, 2021 at 9:22 am

    Yay for baby Declan and getting to spend the holidays with some of your family. I hope all your travel goes well and that Declan’s birth is smooth for all.

    Reply

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