• Craft & Create
  • Living Life
  • Rediscovering ME
  • Reviews and Reflection
    • Email
    • Facebook
    • Instagram
    • Pinterest
    • Twitter

Once Upon a Time & Happily Ever After

Rediscovering Life after Retirement

Categories: Living Life

Duke’s Mixture 01.07.2022

Duke's Mixture 01.07.2022

Sweet friends, it’s the first of the month, which means it’s time for Duke’s Mixture 01.07.2022.  In this first edition of the year, I am joining my friend Anne at In Residence again for her monthly Currently link-up.  Today we are sharing some holiday currentlies – anticipating, organizing, reading, resolving, and scheduling.  And I’m combining Currently with a  little HodgePodge.  I hope these posts are as much fun to read as they are to write!!

Just a reminder:  Once Upon a Time & Happily Ever After occasionally uses affiliate links which are usually italicized.  If you click or make a purchase from an italicized link provided I may receive a very small commission at no cost to you.  Thank you for your support.

anticipating:

PC’s 4-day weekend next week.  He will be off Friday and Monday for Martin Luther King, Jr.’s birthday.  I am hoping we can slip away overnight or at least have some fun.  We both need a few days of R&R desperately.  What shall we do??

organizing:

nothing yet…except maybe my mind.  Trying to plan my month and here we are on the 5th day already.  Have decided to make the weeks that I don’t help with Lauren’s daughters my ‘writing and crafting’ weeks.  Which means I need to do the shopping, cleaning, laundry, ironing and everything else on the other weeks.  Preparing my grocery list – haven’t been home to go big shopping since the first of November.  Entertaining the idea of starting work on our income tax return.  And contemplating a massive purge of my closet.

reading:

oh, girls, I just keep adding books to my Goodreads to-read shelf.  But before I get to those, are we pals on Goodreads, yet?  If not, please find me here and shoot me a friend request.  How did you do on your Goodreads reading challenge for 2021?  I fell 2 books short of my 53-book goal.  Felt like that wasn’t bad considering the crazy in some of my days.  For 2022 I have set a goal of 54 books.  Probably need to supplement by reading a few picture books with the grands to ensure I am successful.

And what am I reading right now?  Well, my book club just selected our January title, The Authenticity Project by Clare Pooley.  We are also reading club member Jo Tracey’s latest book, The Little Cafe by the Lake.

In addition to those titles, I am trying to finish Thin Girls by Diana Clark and The Christmas Bookshop by Jenny Colgan.  Have enjoyed both.  Although, Thin Girls deals with eating disorders and has had me pondering my own bout of anorexia in high school and college.  Making it a tough read.  About half-way through The Last Thing He Told Me by Laura Dave.  This one came highly recommended, but the premise has been a little far-fetched for me.

Lauren impressed upon me that I really need to give ole HP another chance so she has loaned me her illustrated copy of Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone by J.K. Rowling.  I am liking it.  Just haven’t read much yet.

Finally, my devotional time includes 2 books beyond the obvious.  Reading The Prayer Journal for Women: 52 Week Scripture, Devotional & Guided Prayer Journal by Shannon Roberts and Happy for No Reason by Marci Shimoff.

 

resolving:

to lose the weight I have gained from a month of emotional eating.  Not off to a grand start yet, but we are back to tracking our Weight Watcher’s points, and I have signed up for 2 StepBet walking challenges.  Going to put together my wellness journey goals for a post this weekend.

scheduling:

LIFE.  But LIFE doesn’t like to be scheduled.  Have just started working as an animal sitter/dog walker through Rover.com.  We used the service to hire someone to watch Purrsimmony and Purrsnickitty while we were in Ft. Worth and I decided ‘hey, I can do this!’  So, I have my first ‘gig’ this weekend.  Hope that this little bit of work will help me feel like I am contributing more to our finances.  And to pay off my Amazon card (again).  Check out my profile, here.

That sums it up for this month’s edition of Currently.  Hope you will pop in to read Anne’s responses and maybe those of some of the other gals linking up this month.  Hope you will come back on February 2 to share what you are currently loving, making, taking, wanting, and wondering.

HodgePodge

 

Every Tuesday my friend Joyce who blogs at From This Side of the Pond poses 5 thoughtful questions for her readers to consider and respond to on the following day.  Her questions are fun to ponder and always make me stop for a moment to reflect.  Here are the hodgepodge questions for this week and my responses.

 

From this Side of the Pond
Happiness

1. Share one happy moment/memory from the holiday season.

The birth of my grandson Declan Ashraf Orya on 12.20.2021.  On the same day, just hours later, we almost lost his mama, my daughter Brennyn.  So that happiness was short-lived.  But now, almost 3 weeks later, all is well for mother and baby.

grandson

Expectation

2. Let’s be reasonable with our expectations going into this new year, k? What is one thing you’d like to accomplish/improve/complete/do in 2022?

Get into a routine of writing.  And then WRITE.

Word Up

3. Every January 1st (since 1976) Lake Superior University has published a list of words they’d like to see banished from the Queen’s English. Words may be banished due to misuse, overuse or just general uselessness (go here to read more about how the words are chosen). Here are the words/phrases they’d like to see banished in 2022-

wait, what?-no worries-at the end of the day-that being said-asking for a friend-circle back-deep dive-a new normal-you’re on mute-supply chain

Which of these words/phrases do you use regularly? Which of these words would you most like to see banished from everyday speech and why? Is there a word/phrase not on the list you’d like to add?

Wow, what does it say about me that I don’t use any of these phrases??  That I am OLD.  Ha!!   I have probably said at the end of the day and that being said and possibly a new normal, all once or twice.  I hear circle back a lot from the President’s (I do realize that word is not capitalized but I don’t understand that) press secretary.  Deep dive is a phrase I’ve read online quite a bit.  Both of those are overused, in my opinion.  They can go away.

And so can my bad and dis.

Foodie

4. Best thing you ate in the month of December?

Delicious Afghan food prepared by my son-in-law Mustafa’s mother Parveen a few days after my brand-new grandson Declan was born.  Rice with meat in it called palow with beef.  Bolani with green onion and potato – kind of like a potato and green onion quesadilla minus the cheese.  Lohla kabobs, chapli kabobs that look a little like a hamburger patty but tastes so much better.  All drizzled with salata, a middle eastern version of pico de gallo or salsa.  So many flavors…savory, citrusy with a bit of spiciness.

Duke's Mixture 01.07.2022

Birdie

5. January 5th is National Bird Day. Are you a bird lover? What’s your favorite bird to see in the wild? Choose a phrase from the list that follows and tell us how it relates to your life currently…eat like a bird, bird’s eye view, early bird, bird-brained, free as a bird, a little bird told me, or kill two birds with one stone.  

Nope, not a bird lover.  However, I am learning to tolerate and even appreciate birds a little bit and from a respectable distance.  Christmas before last, the one in 2020, I discovered that seeing a cardinal means a loved one who has died is visiting you.  I kind of like cardinals now.  And hummingbirds.  They are cute.

cardinal

[source]

Of the expressions listed above, I guess ‘eat like a bird’ is the one that best relates to my life right now.  Although, I am eating more like a condor than a sparrow.  But I am back on Weight Watchers, tracking points and hoping to lose the 6 pounds of emotional weight I picked up In December.

Covid

6. Insert your own random thought here.

I am sick to death of Covid.  We have 1003 new cases in El Paso today.  Will we ever go back to being in public without a mask?

 

Your Turn

 

What would your answers be to the hodgepodge questions?  How ’bout your responses to the currently prompts for this month?  Play along…share your answers in a comment below.

Hoping to get a WOTY and a 2021 year-in-review post written in the next few days and to figure out my wellness goals for the new year.  Also hoping to get by to see all of my blogging buddies.

Thank you for spending a few moments of your day here with me.

Hugs and kisses,

  • leslie
  • Get Updates

    [jetpack-related-posts]

    About Leslie Roberts Clingan

    I am an aspiring blogger and children's author, wife, mother, daughter, sister, - in-law, responsible pet owner and recently retired elementary school librarian. I hope to figure out the next chapter of my life as I transition from crazy, busy work world onto totally idle retirement and now to something in-between.

    Comments

    1. Nancy

      January 7, 2022 at 1:29 am

      How fun is that dog walking job! And that while you are already so busy. I am reading books again and just love it! It’s so good to relax with a good book!

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        January 28, 2022 at 5:49 pm

        So glad you are reading books again. My favorite way to escape and relax. Hope this new year brings many great titles your way.

        Reply
    2. Joanne

      January 7, 2022 at 4:02 am

      I’m currently trying to pull my word of the year post together and working on weight/fitness goals too. So glad that all is well with both mama and baby now; I am sure that was terrifying!

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        January 28, 2022 at 5:49 pm

        Just checking out your WOTY – step. Will be interested to see where you steps lead you this year. I used to write a post each month about ways that I stepped out of my comfort zone. Maybe I need to revitalize that series and start thinking of ways to step outside my comfort zone this year.

        Reply
    3. Deb

      January 7, 2022 at 5:05 am

      Interesting to see those words/phrases that people want removed – I don’t think I use many of them, and I don’t think I’ve ever heard of ‘deep dive’.
      I think you have well and truly earned a long, relaxing weekend. Make sure you do something extra special!
      Jon and Sophie used to sometimes look after other people’s dogs at the weekend when they lived in London. There was a scheme called ‘borrow my dog’ and that’s exactly what happened, you borrowed someone else’s dog for a couple of days. They loved doing it!

      Reply
    4. Kellyann Rohr

      January 7, 2022 at 5:08 am

      Thanks for sharing that prayer journal, I just ordered it – looks like exactly what I was looking for!
      Oh friend, I cannot imagine what Declan’s birth was like and I am so happy everyone is okay now. So scary. I hope you and PC get away next weekend, you need it and deserve it!
      xo,
      Kellyann

      Reply
    5. Dara

      January 7, 2022 at 5:47 am

      Congrats on the new baby and I’m so sorry it turned into a scary situation! But I’m happy all is well now. I recently got The Authenticity Project and want to read it someday when I get to it, lol!

      Reply
    6. Christie Hawkes

      January 7, 2022 at 6:17 am

      Hello dear friend. You have so much going on, I think organizing your mind is a legitimate accomplishment! Once again, I am so happy for you that baby and mama are both doing well. My grandmother loved birds, so consequently I do too. They make me think of her. Our COVID rates are skyrocketing as well. I feel like everywhere I go, I’m probably coming in contact with someone who has it and doesn’t know yet, or at least has had close contact with someone who has. Anyway, I am grateful that so far my boosted vaccination and mask have done their jobs. We had a family gathering at Christmas, and almost two weeks later, no one has taken ill. Yea! Good luck on your goals. I’m rooting for you!

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        January 28, 2022 at 5:39 pm

        Hallelujah that your family remains well after the Christmas holidays together. We are knocking on wood and thanking our lucky stars that we have managed to escape Covid to this point, too. Although this week we have been fighting sinus infections and bronchitis.

        Reply
    7. Lisa

      January 7, 2022 at 8:27 am

      I always enjoy reading your posts — I’m so glad your daughter is ok and that baby is so precious!!

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        January 28, 2022 at 5:37 pm

        Thank you so much. We kinda like that fellow.

        Reply
    8. Donna Connolly

      January 7, 2022 at 8:54 am

      Wait, what? How could Lake Superior University wish to banish those words/phrases. I use most of them….and learned a couple new cool ones as well.
      So glad to read that all is now well with Brennyn and Declan.

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        January 28, 2022 at 5:37 pm

        Ha!! You make me laugh!! Wait, what??
        Thank you, Donna.

        Reply
    9. Jennifer Smith

      January 7, 2022 at 3:00 pm

      Oh, I am so sorry to hear that your daughter’s pregnancy/birth was so difficult….but how wonderful to hear that all seems to be well. Glad you could be there and that God sustained all of you. And what a handsome one he is there!! I always love those first photos!:) Look forward to keeping in touch through these blog spaces in the year ahead!

      Reply
    10. jodie filogomo

      January 7, 2022 at 3:40 pm

      I always get in the organizing mood this time of year, and I finally tackled my bra drawer. Here I am donating 16 bras away, haha.
      XOOX
      Jodie
      http://www.jtouchofstyle.com

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        January 28, 2022 at 5:34 pm

        Good for you!! We have been feeling poorly this week and may spend tomorrow going through our closet and drawers as that is a quiet activity that will surely make us feel better.

        Reply
    11. Michelle,

      January 7, 2022 at 6:17 pm

      I’m sorry there was a scare with your daughter. Ugh. So glad to hear mom and baby are doing okay.

      Michelle
      https://mybijoulifeonline.com

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        January 28, 2022 at 5:33 pm

        Thank you!! We are breathing a huge sigh of relief.

        Reply
    12. Marsha Banks

      January 7, 2022 at 9:03 pm

      So many things here, Leslie! First and foremost, thank God for Declan and Brennyn turning the corner. I will keep them in my prayers. I met my Goodreads challenge this year and exceeded it by 2. But, that was only 52 books. I used to read four or five books a week all at the same time. I don’t know if it’s Covid, but something has definitely changed my reading habits. And, losing weight…ugh! I have been doing much better keeping control of my emotional eating. I’ve got far more than you to lose but I’m going to get there!
      I think I’ve used a few of those phrases and will probably continue to use them since I don’t seem to talk to many people anyway!

      Looking forward to our 10 on the 10th!

      https://marshainthemiddle.com/

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        January 28, 2022 at 5:33 pm

        Proud of you for meeting your Goodreads goal. I am behind to start this year. Need to sneak a few picture books in the mix to give me a boost back on track.
        We are celebrating Declan and Brennyn and thank God for answered prayers.

        Reply
    13. Morgan

      January 8, 2022 at 9:20 am

      Congrats on the new baby! I am so sorry that it was a rough time though. I just finished up 56 Days and I enjoyed it (even though it had to do with the first Covid lockdown).
      I have never heard of the hodgepodge link up before, I’m going to have to take a gander. Enjoy the four day weekends coming up!

      Reply
    14. em

      January 10, 2022 at 5:43 am

      This is a great, newsy kind of post, Leslie! I think it’s the perfect way to update us on what’s happening in Leslieland…(and the answer to that is definitely “a lot!!!”). Love that you are able to still fit in a little update along the way (rather than the dead air space on my pages for far less significant reasons).

      Lots of interesting things that you’re up to, but clearly the joy of Declan and the worry for Brennyn are the most pressing. How joyful to have this new baby boy….and what a great big sister Cady will be! You are one blessed Gabba…and I know you know that better than anyone.

      Much joy and a healthy new year to all.

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        January 28, 2022 at 5:26 pm

        Thank you, em, for the support and kind words. We are celebrating Declan’s 2-pound weight gain and Brennyn’s complete recovery. Baby boy is downright chubby!! God is so good and we are indeed blessed.

        Reply
    15. Jill

      January 11, 2022 at 6:06 am

      I didn’t know that your daughter had a difficult birth. How terrifying. I’m so happy she is doing well now! Your grandson is precious! I’m impressed with how many books you read in 2021. My goal was to read 12 and I only read 6. One of my goals this year is to read at least 15 minutes a day. Hope you are able to get away for the long weekend coming up!

      Jill – Doused in Pink

      Reply

    Leave a Reply Cancel reply

    Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

    This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

    Hello!

    graphic tee

    In what felt like the blink of an eye, I have gone from full-time wife to my sweet husband, hands-on mom to my two beautiful daughters and elementary school librarian to a retired, empty nester with lots of time on my hands. Join me on my journey to rediscover who I am. Glad you are here...
    About me

    Let’s Be Friends

    • Email
    • Facebook
    • Instagram
    • Pinterest
    • Twitter

    Search

    Archives

    Disclosure

    Once Upon a Time & Happily Ever After occasionally uses affiliate links. This means that if you click a link provided we may receive a very small commission. Thank you for your support!

    Best of the Blog

    • pantry organization Easy Pantry Organization Tips: Pinterventures, 01.2020 posted on January 21, 2020
    • White for Summer Ageless Style 07.2022: White for Summer posted on July 21, 2022
    • 10 on the 10th 07.2022 10 on the 10th 07.2022: 10 Things I Love About Summer posted on July 10, 2022
    • Beached Starfish & 10 Favorite Bible Verses: 10 on the 10th posted on September 10, 2019
    • Promised Land: Short Story Prompt, 06.2019 posted on June 26, 2019

    Alison & Aubrey Accessories

    onceuponatimehappilyeverafter

    In the blink of an eye, I've gone from full-time wife, hands-on mom & librarian to a retired, empty nester rediscovering who I am.

    Leslie Clingan
    07.30.2022 Happiest of birthdays, Brennyn Alexis!! 07.30.2022 Happiest of birthdays, Brennyn Alexis!! So thankful to have had this time with you, and to be able to hug you in person. on your special day. 

This is a photo of your first bath. Grandma is holding you while I rinse you with a washcloth. I think you are probably 4 or 5 days old. Thought it was fitting for this birthday. 

You never ever cease to amaze me in ALL the ways. I love you so much, love the mother you are to Cady and Dec and the wife you are to Mustafa. So proud of the loving nurse you are, the daughter, sister and Tia NeeNee. And, of course, responsible pet owner.
May this birthday year bring you many continued blessings. And only the tiniest hiccups. 
Happy birthday!! I love you.
#firstborndaughter 
#firstborn 
#daughterlove
#grandmasofinstagram 
#firstbath 
#happybirthday 
#insta2022📸 
#elpasoblogger 
#grandmotherlove 
#onceuponatimehappilyeverafter
    07.28.2022 Happy birthday, my beautiful Cadence. 07.28.2022 Happy birthday,  my beautiful Cadence.  Cannot believe you are 12. So proud of the intelligent, kind, sweet baby you are.  I love you so.  Dinner @joetgarcias_ with @dollie._.mw

#granddaughterlove 
#grandmasofinstagram 
#forthworth 
#mexicanfood 
#happybirthdaygirl 
#elpasotexas 
#elpasoblogger
#pigheaven 
#insta2022📸 
#onceuponatimehappilyeverafter
    07.24.2022 My patriotic PC, replacing a tattered f 07.24.2022 My patriotic PC, replacing a tattered flag with a fresh one. He so respects our stars and stripes and those who have fought to protect her.

#PrinceCharming 
#grandoldflag 
#starsandstripes 
#starsandstripesforever 
#longmayshewave 
#iloveamerica 
#elpasotx915 
#elpasoblogger 
#armyveteran 
#insta2022📸 
#onceuponatimehappilyeverafter
    07.22.2022 Yay me!! I assembled this little patio 07.22.2022 Yay me!! I assembled this little patio set myself. Not too sure anyone should sit on it. But it looks pretty, right? 

And I added the glass mosaic piece I completed last summer for the table top. Not sure if I should leave the mosaic out in the heat but today it's rainy and overcast. 

Thank you,  @analuisaarias_artist for introducing me to mosaic  and thank you, @terrywrightstudio for providing me with new mosaic experiences. 

#glassmosaic 
#someassemblyrequired 
#hobbies 
#lifeafterretirement 
#grandmasofinstagram 
#elpasoblogger 
#elpasoartist 
#insta2022📸 
#onceuponatimehappilyeverafter
    07.21.2022 Ageless Style Link Up: White for Summer 07.21.2022 Ageless Style Link Up: White for Summer.

Trying to type this while my calico kitty nudges my laptop. Almost impossible. 

Sharing 2 summer white looks and the accessories to go with as I take white from day to night...and that rhymes...featuring my @bananarepublicfactory white blazer. Joining my Ageless Style buddies for this link-up.

@jtouchofstyle @chezmireillefashiontravelmom @mysideof50 @distinctlysouthernstyle @marsha_in_the_middle @ameliasfleurs @bosbodaciousblog 

#agelessstyle 
#agelessfashion 
#silversisters 
#fashionover60 
#grandmasofinstagram 
#summerwhites 
#blazerstyle 
#panamahat 
#elpasotexas 
#elpasoblogger 
#insta2022📸 
#onceuponatimehappilyeverafter
    07.04.2022 Happy 4th of July - from our table to y 07.04.2022 Happy 4th of July - from our table to yours. 

America isn't perfect but it is a 250-year-old work in progress. And I am thankful to have been born in a country so many dream of moving to. 

God bless the USA. 

#godblessamerica 
#godblesstheusa 
#ladyliberty 
#redwhiteandblue 
#elpasotexas 
#elpasoblogger
#grandmasofinstagram 
#landofplenty 
#fourthofjuly 
#bbqfood 
#insta2022📸 
#lifeafterretirement 
#silversisters 
#onceuponatimehappilyeverafter
    Load More... Follow on Instagram

    Summer 2022 Capsule Wardrobe – Register Here

    Spring 2022 Capsule Wardrobe – Click to Register

    10 on the 10th

    10 on the 10th 03.2022

    My Summer 2022 Bucket List

    Summer bucket list

    My Wellness Journey 2022

    My Wellness Journey 02.2022

    My Wellness Journey 2022. Sharing my wellness goals and steps toward achieving them.

    One Sentence a Day

    iSpy 2022

    iSpy 2022

    Sunday Stills Photo Challenge

    Copyright © 2022 · Theme by Blog Pixie

    home · about me · where i link-up · disclosure policy · privacy policy
    ONCE UPON A TIME & HAPPILY EVER AFTER

    By continuing to browse the site you are agreeing to our use of cookies.