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Christmas Treats from Sarah the Elf and a BIG THANK YOU to Alison

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Don’t tell Santa!

Today I opened my first Christmas presents.

I know, I know, Christmas is still a week away but my Style Me Pretty blogging buddies and I exchanged gifts today.  Deena at From Shoes to Shiraz set up our names through Elfster and each of us received the name of another blogger to buy for.  We decided to send one another regional gifts that represent the area where we live because we are really all over the map.

My little elf turned out to be Sarah  from Foxy’s Domestic Side.  I have gotten to “know” Sarah  through the Style Me Pretty Challenges and was immediately drawn to her warm smile in our first challenge together.  I have enjoyed learning more about her sweet family through Sarah’s blog posts and invite you to stop by her blog, too.  She has the cutest family – two darling children she has nicknamed Baby Fox and Mini Fox – and she and her hubby share the sweetest love story.

So my box from Sarah arrived about a week ago. I might or might have shaken it just a bit but it was carefully packaged and I couldn’t tell anything about what was inside.  I gave it up trying to figure it out and put the box in the living room until today.

This morning I jumped out of bed, showered and  got dressed in today’s Winter Challenge outfit of the day (modified a bit) then hurried downstairs to open my box.  I peeled away the brown paper and opened the box.

Inside I found this sweet note from Sarah.

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Guess who?

Beneath the note were four carefully wrapped packages, each with a little label.

Polka dot pretty.
Polka dot pretty.

And inside that shiny foil paper…

Vamos a la playa.
Vamos a la playa.

Everything I will need for a day of fun in the sun and a day at the beach or the pool come summer time.

A thirsty red and white striped beach towel.

An inner tube to float lazily about the pool or the sea.

Some SPF 50 lip balm to keep my pucker pretty.

And the cutest polka dot bag to keep my pool/beach gear in.

Love it!

Hugs and kisses, Sarah!
Hugs and kisses, Sarah!

Can’t wait to go back to the beach with all of my goodies.  If I listen real hard, I can almost hear waves crashing on the shore already.

Thank you so much, my sweet secret elf Sarah.

Coincidentally, Paul and I were just going through our Cancun and Punta Cana vacation pictures last night.  We bought a 24 picture frame at Kirkland’s last weekend to display our beach vacation pictures.  We each picked our favorite photos and I had them developed and picked them up yesterday.  Looking at all of that sun, surf and delicious food made me so anxious for summer.  Paul has said that this summer we have to stay home…BOO!  But I am hopeful that by the time summer rolls around, he will have changed his mind.

Thank you, Alison!
Thank you, Alison!

While I am thinking about summer already (thank you, Sarah!), winter hasn’t even officially begun and yet we are about half-way through the Winter-Holiday 2014 Style Me Pretty Challenge.  I haven’t participated as actively in the last couple of challenges, written fewer posts, taken fewer selfies but I think perhaps that is a sign of how much I have grown since “meeting” Alison Lumbatis last spring.

When I stumbled across Alison’s blog and posts about her first fashion challenge, I was in a rather gloomy chapter of my life.  I had retired very reluctantly from a job I had loved working for 25 years.  I was recovering from a second surgery on my cervical spine in six months time.  I had no direction for my “new” life and had no idea what I was supposed to be doing with all of my new-found free time.

I was stuck in what Alison calls a yoga pant-wearing “mom rut”.

During the spring, for over a month from the opening of registration to the last day’s challenge outfit, I had a reason again to get up every morning and get dressed.  I began making virtual friendships to replace those work-friendships I missed once I retired.  And once I was out of bed, dressed and feeling confident, I found places to go and things to do.

I took mosaic lessons and painting classes.  I started working part-time as an art teacher and library substitute.  I adopted a healthier lifestyle – exercising regularly again once my neck healed, eating better, taking time for daily devotions, writing, reading, scrapbooking and just enjoying my wonderful life.

Maybe eventually I would have crawled out from under my retirement bed and started living again even if I hadn’t found Alison and her challenges.  But I wouldn’t have been as well-dressed, that’s for sure!

So thank you, Alison.

Thank you for helping me return to living life.

Thank you for daring me to try new things for the outside of me (boyfriend jeans, white skinnies, maxi skirts and dresses, pattern mixing and lots of leopard) which has lead to my trying new things for the inside of me (painting, mosaic work, swimming, blogging).

I look forward to 2015 and all of the adventures that the new year will bring.

And I know that no matter what life throws my way, I will be dressed for the occasion.

leslie

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About Leslie Roberts Clingan

I am an aspiring blogger and children's author, wife, mother, daughter, sister, - in-law, responsible pet owner and recently retired elementary school librarian. I hope to figure out the next chapter of my life as I transition from crazy, busy work world onto totally idle retirement and now to something in-between.

Comments

  1. Joy

    December 18, 2014 at 8:24 pm

    That is a fantastic gift! It is fun to start thinking about summer already.

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    • Leslie Roberts Clingan

      December 18, 2014 at 8:38 pm

      I love the beach. Love it. Not sure how Sarah knew that but so glad she did! Thanks for coming by, Joy. XO

      Reply
  2. Katie

    December 18, 2014 at 10:15 pm

    Such great gifts!! And I LOVE that you didn’t open them until today!! That is super fun and fabulous!! Merry Christmas Pretty Lady!

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    • Leslie Roberts Clingan

      December 21, 2014 at 6:56 pm

      Katie, I always try to wait to Christmas before I open any presents. I am good girl that way. My husband always, always wants me to open his gifts early and has been trying for a week to give me my presents. So far, I have been able to resist but growing weak!!!

      Reply
  3. Lana

    December 19, 2014 at 12:34 am

    Oh Leslie, your letter to Alison is so beautiful! I just love that I met you, and I can’t wait to get to know you even better during 2015. You are a beautiful woman, inside and out! Love your gifts from Sarah. Have a great weekend!

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    • Leslie Roberts Clingan

      December 21, 2014 at 6:58 pm

      Thank you, Lana. Have had such a good weekend since my daughter got home for Christmas. I think I have handled the empty-nest business fairly well but I sure do enjoy having my girls come home. Thank you for coming by!

      Reply
  4. Amanda

    December 19, 2014 at 6:31 am

    I love your post and your letter to Alison.
    I am so happy for you that you were able to take care of yourself and try new things. It’s up to ourselves to create our own happiness, and it looks like you are doing that very well.

    I, too, am in the Winter Challenge. I’m the one who had knee surgery and I show Christmas socks I am wearing for that day.

    Reply
    • Leslie Roberts Clingan

      December 21, 2014 at 7:00 pm

      You are so sweet. I am trying hard to do some of the things I have always said I would do once I quit working. I do miss being in a library and working with children. You are so correct that we make our own happiness (or not!). I am going to check out your blog and hope you will come back by again. Thank you for your kind words.

      Reply
  5. Alison @ Get Your Pretty On

    December 19, 2014 at 7:19 am

    I’m sitting here with my box of tissues, Leslie. The truth is that you special, incredible women in these challenges have been the real blessing. I just put together some outfits, you all did the rest. I look back on 2014 in awe of what a year it’s been. Thank you for being such a big part of this!

    P.S. Sarah is one incredible gift giver!

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    • Leslie Roberts Clingan

      December 21, 2014 at 7:01 pm

      Thank you, Alison, for coming by my blog! The challenges have been great for many reasons but we wouldn’t have ever have had the great experiences if not for YOU! Wishing you continued success and happiness in 2015. XO

      Reply

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