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Rediscovering ME – A Challenge for LIFE, Part 3

Hey Dolls!

First, before we get started with our girl talk, I want to give a big shout out to my handsome baby brother, Kevin.  He was my only male ‘follower’ until I coerced PC into subscribing to my blog tonight.

My baby brother has always been in my corner, there to support me, help me, counsel me, quite like a big sister would normally do for her little brother.

I can’t really ever remember being able to give any kind of sound advice to Kevin (don’t do what I do/did) except for once when he was concerned about the sometime aggressive behavior of his pup around strangers.  He was truly worried about Tucker and the way he interacted – or more accurately, didn’t interact – with groomers, people at the kennel where he was sometimes boarded, even our own family members.

I am a huge animal lover and I just advised that Kevin introduce Tucker into more situations where he was around people.  Walks, dog parks, maybe even some kind of obedience class.  And now, several years later, while Tuck is still a bit anti-social he is still an important part of Kevin’s life.

  Tucker shares a place in Kevin’s heart with my niece Shelby and nephew Jacob.  Not only is Kevin a responsible pet owner but he is one of the best dads EVER.

Super DAD
Super DAD

I love ya, Kev!

Thanks for always being there for me.  And you are welcome to guest post any time!!

Now, onto my progress during the Rediscover ME Challenge:

Monday I talked about the goals we were asked to set for different areas of our lives.  You can review those here.  From those various sets of goals we created a master list that consolidated all of our goals into one document.  I won’t go through all of my assorted goals again, (aren’t you glad?), but if you are really interested, here they are on my worksheet!

Mast Goals Worksheet
Master Goals Worksheet

And now, the moment you’ve all been waiting for.  The unveiling, the big reveal…the moment of truth, la hora de la verdad, le moment de vérité…

Here’s how I have fared so far:

checkmark

Why is that check mark so big?

General Goals

  • Read 1 book a month – read two adult books, several children’s books in February
Two grown-up books
Two grown-up books
  • Write everyday – between blogging, journal writing and my creative writing class
writing
Journaling, participating in Tumblewords Writing Project, working on my stories
  • Have daily devotional – Jesus Calling and Bible verses from Biblegateway.com
  • Save $20 from each paycheck and save for Christmas fund – done, son

checkmarkSelf-Care/Appearance Goals

  • Exercise 4-5X a week for 30-45 minutes – have walked McKelligon Canyon(4 miles) 3X (ran down once), gone to gym 2X a week, walked kitties, done Fitness Blender workouts, treadmill at home
McKelligon Canyon walks on Sundays.
McKelligon Canyon walks on Sundays.
  • Mani, pedi, facial, massage –  have had three massages, getting mani on Friday
  • Whiten teeth – yup, with Crest White Strips
  • Drink water, take vitamins everyday, enjoy detox bath 2x a week – yes, yes, kinda

checkmarkHealthy Living/Wellness Goals

  • Swim 3X a month for 45 minutes – been swimming twice a week, a mile each time, call me mermaid…ok, ok, mer-matron
Mermaid, ok, mermatron
Now isn’t THAT pretty?
  • Floss every other day – umm, almost
  • Lift weights – at least once a week
  • Track WW points – well, there’s room for improvement
Work in progress
Work in progress

But that being said, look who is now wearing a size 26/6 in jeans!  Only took two clerks to help me pull them up. (Accepting donation$ for $hoes)

Gotta love that LOFT
Gotta love that LOFT

checkmarkPersonal Growth/Relationships

  • Make PC my priority and put our relationship first – keeping him in the forefront of my mind through the week, but always first on Saturdays
#1 fan: go Cougars
#1 fan: go Cougars
  • Listen, LISTEN to Brennyn and Lauren – trying hard to not always offer advice, just support
  • Skype with Coo – have only read a bed time story to Cady once, but hope to do it again soon
Three Little Pigs
Three Little Pigs
  • So no when I mean no – trying to be more selective in doing mostly only things I want to do (plus paying bills)
  • Be more spontaneously snuggly – yup, but more progress needed
  • Volunteer – volunteering in three places:  El Paso Holocaust Museum and Study Center (creating MARC records for all of their books in a circulation and cataloging database); The Mustard Seed Cafe (working in the garden and donating books to their library); Reflections of Generosity (helping with exhibit to open in May, serving as chairperson for their newsletter)
Book cataloger, newsletter writer, master gardener
Book cataloger, master gardener, mummy in training

In the pic on the far right, I am having my face cast for a Reflections of Generosity exhibit in memory of those lost in 9-11.  The exhibit will open in May at the Chamizal National Memorial, here in El Paso, and will become a traveling exhibit afterward.  I will be devoting a post to this project very soon.

Overall, I am very pleased with my progress.  Of course, there is room for growth.  But with that in mind, my Master Goals Worksheet is a living document.

The beginning of next month, I will do a check-in to access my progress throughout March.  Many of the Rediscover ME challengers are starting the challenge over again this month.  Rather than start from the beginning, I have chosen to just keep going and see what I can do on my own.

Hope this has inspired you to think of ways you can enrich and improve your own life.  If you have any questions or comments, please leave them below.

Thank you for being a part of my journey.

P.S. I am honored to have been mentioned on Alison’s blog Get Your Pretty On for my review of this challenge.  What an honor to be linked with such a great blogger and warm, genuine lady.  Thank you, Alison.

Bear hugs and butterfly kisses,

leslie

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About Leslie Roberts Clingan

I am an aspiring blogger and children's author, wife, mother, daughter, sister, - in-law, responsible pet owner and recently retired elementary school librarian. I hope to figure out the next chapter of my life as I transition from crazy, busy work world onto totally idle retirement and now to something in-between.

Comments

  1. Sharon

    March 4, 2015 at 11:23 am

    You are my hero Les! You are doing great! I knew that retirement was going to be hard for you because you have been such a hard worker all you life but redirecting all that in a new direction is what you needed to be fulfilled! A big hug from your BFF! Love the pic of Kevin and the kids. It’s still hard for me to see him all grown up! I remember when he was a little guy and would come in your room all the time when we were hanging out. Such fond memories of so many many years ago! After reading your blog today, you have inspired me to do more also…. if I can find the time after the babies arrive :). AND, I’m so glad you are finally buying the right size Loft pants! You look gorgeous skinny MeeMee! Love you!

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  2. Mary

    March 4, 2015 at 7:28 pm

    Glad you are meeting your goals! Congrats on the “downsizing” LOL-you look great!

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  3. Kev

    March 5, 2015 at 3:25 pm

    Wow, Paul finally signed up? Just kidding….thanks for all the kind words. Tuck and I are recovering from snow shoveling and frozen restroom breaks. Finals total was 14+ inches. Some places close by got 20 inches. Sun is out and things are good. Spring arrives this week. Take care and keep up the good work.

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    • Leslie Roberts Clingan

      March 7, 2015 at 9:25 pm

      Thank you, sweet Kevin. Mom says you will be out of town this coming week. Safe travels. We are having spring temps and sun here, too. Paul’s baseball team won 18-0 today. Thank goodness.

      Reply
  4. Lana

    March 6, 2015 at 10:51 am

    I have loved reading along with this! Great job on your goals – both creating them and then getting it done!

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    • Leslie Roberts Clingan

      March 6, 2015 at 4:39 pm

      Thank you, Lana! Please consider doing it with me next time Alison offers it. I feel so much more accomplished and grounded now. And that is huge for someone who is a space cadet!!

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