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10 on the 10th 12.2020: 10 Holiday Traditions

 

10 on the 10th 12.2020: 10 Holiday Traditions

Sweet Santa’s elves, thanks for popping in for 10 on the 10th 12.2020.  Today we are sharing 10 holiday activities or traditions.  I have to say, this was a tough prompt for me.  And I came up with it!!  Clearly, we don’t have enough Christmas activities or traditions in my family.

If I can think of 8, I’ll be lucky.  Going to give it the old college try…

10 Holiday Activities and Traditions

Since this prompt was such a struggle for me, I am going to combine the activities and traditions of my childhood with my children’s childhoods.  Maybe even my neighbors’ childhoods!!

My Childhood

  • Visit the Prudential Building:  On Christmas Eve, my parents would take us into downtown Boston where we would ride the elevator 50 stories up to the top of the Prudential Building.  We would stand at the windows of the observation deck and look for Santa.  One night I cried down the elevator and all the way home because my ears wouldn’t pop.  Kind of spoiled the whole evening…my crying, that is.
  • Leave cookies and carrots out:  Pretty sure almost every other American child did this back in the olden days (was recently reminded of that phrase which I used to use all the time).  My dad, bless his heart, ate the cookies and carrots every year and drank the glass of milk.
  • Matching Christmas dresses:  At least for a few years, my younger sister and I wore watching Christmas dresses.  One year, they were red velvet jumpers with white blouses underneath.  My mom made them and red shorts overalls for our much younger brother.
  • Cinnamon and orange rolls:  My mom and her mom before her always made homemade cinnamon and orange rolls.  And we usually had a fresh batches of both for breakfast Christmas morning.  Check out our family recipe in this recipe swap blog hop post from earlier this year.

A Sweet Labor of Love Recipe Swap

My Children’s Childhood

My girls always left a plate of cookies and carrots out for Santa and the reindeer.  As the mommy, it was my turn to eat the cookies and the carrots, leaving a few crumbs of each behind on the plate.  So this was something we carried over from my childhood.

  • Christmas dresses:  The first year we were back in the U.S. after living in Panama, I wanted my girls to have Christmas dresses.  In Panama, it was always warm year-round so Christmas dresses looked like Easter dresses!!  Pastels and flowers – see the first photo below.  I wanted the girls to have Christmas dresses for cold weather, with tights, hair bows and shiny new shoes.  Found these beautiful dresses the second photo below and put them on layaway.  Loved finally being able to dress my daughters up for the holidays.  Not sure why I felt it so important that the girls have Christmas dresses, but it was.  We often bought dresses and tights for some of the less fortunate little girls at their school.
10 on the 10th 12.2020: 10 Holiday Traditions
10 on the 10th 12.2020: 10 Holiday Traditions
10 on the 10th 12.2020: 10 Holiday Traditions
10 on the 10th 12.2020: 10 Holiday Traditions
  • Baking Christmas cookies:  My mom always made cookies but I don’t remember helping her much.  We did make sugar cookies with my grandmother a time or two.  She usually came from Missouri to stay with us during the winter.  My daughters and I made cookies together.  Brennyn’s favorites were caramel heavenlies and Lauren’s favorites were lemon almond cookies.

10 on the 10th 12.2020: 10 Holiday Traditions

  • Going to see Christmas lights:  We often did this the night before Christmas, along with the rest of the western hemisphere.  A couple of times lately, I have made a Christmas light scavenger hunt and plan to do that again this year as part of my winter bucket list.  Come back on 12.21.2020 to get a copy!

10 on the 10th 12.2020: 10 Holiday Traditions

Christmas Present Traditions
  • Santa presents and stockings:  This is another carry-over from my childhood but with our own twist.  Santa presents are never wrapped.  When I was a kid, Santa left his gifts unwrapped under the tree.  But for my daughters, he adopted a different strategy.  He left each girl’s presents in a special place on the couch or in a chair.  And we could tell whose gifts were whose because he also put their filled stockings beside their Santa gifts.  Of course, everything in the stockings was also from the jolly ole fella.  And no one was allowed to look at Santa presents until they woke me up…usually before dawn.

10 on the 10th 12.2020: 10 Holiday Traditions

  • Opening presents:  I was a mean old mom.  Wouldn’t let Brennyn and Lauren open their wrapped gifts from family until after they had breakfast, made their beds and maybe even got dressed.  Can’t remember for sure about that part.  But breakfast had to be eaten and beds made for sure.  Then they could open one present from under the tree at a time.  We took turns.  Brennyn would open something, then Lauren, then I would open a gift.  Apparently, this mom let them open one present on Christmas Eve, though.  So maybe I wasn’t so mean after all.  It’s funny, I asked both girls for traditions and they both remembered opening a present on the 24th but I didn’t remember that at all!!
Sharing with Others
  • Giving to others:  I tried to teach the girls the importance of giving to others from a young age.  Their elementary schools had Santa’s Workshops where the children could buy in expensive little gifts.  Often times Brennyn and Lauren would do extra chores to earn more money/allowance to buy gifts at Christmas.  And we always bought for children less fortunate than they.  Several years we took gifts to an orphanage in Juarez, Mexico.  They would clean up some of their older, less played-with toys to donate to Toys for Tots when the Marines came around collecting them.

Ha!!  I did it!!  I came up with 10 traditions.  We are more ‘traditional’ than I thought.  Enjoyed reminiscing here about Christmases past.

YOUR TURN

Have you begun making holiday plans?  Will you be celebrating with family and friends or is it unsafe to do so where you live?  It will be just PC and me for our Christmas morning and meal.  Hope to at least Facetime with Brennyn, Cady and Tafa and Lauren, Francisco, Cia and Cami sometime during the day.  We’ve been blessed to have little ones around for the holidays for 10 years now.  This Christmas is going to be mighty quiet in comparison.

If you have a 10 on the 10th holiday traditions post, won’t you link up with us below?  Or share your favorite tradition in a comment.

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Then hope you will take a few minutes to visit some of my friends to share their holiday traditions with us.

And that brings us to the last 10 on the 10th post for the year.  Thank you for supporting this series during the year.  Trying to plan for blogging in 2021.  Should I continue this series?  Please let me know in a comment below.

Thank you for stopping by.  Hope your holiday plans are everything you dream for them to be.

Hugs and kisses,

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    I am an aspiring blogger and children's author, wife, mother, daughter, sister, - in-law, responsible pet owner and recently retired elementary school librarian. I hope to figure out the next chapter of my life as I transition from crazy, busy work world onto totally idle retirement and now to something in-between.

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    1. Carrie

      December 10, 2020 at 4:49 am

      I love the details you shared here especially how Santa gave gifts to your daughters…making them have breakfast and make their beds is the best! Thanks for hosting my friend!

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      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        December 14, 2020 at 1:22 pm

        Thank you for joining me, Carrie. I was a pretty strict mom. But I have 2 wonderful girls to show for it!!

        Reply
    2. Danielle

      December 10, 2020 at 5:26 am

      Such fun traditions you had and have. I love my girls having coordinating outfits. 🙂

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        December 14, 2020 at 1:11 pm

        You are making your babies such cute things!! Can’t wait to see them all dolled up!!

        Reply
    3. Joanne

      December 10, 2020 at 5:39 am

      My boys always left out milk and cookies and carrots for the reindeer; my husband happily munched on them and drank the milk.

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        December 14, 2020 at 1:31 pm

        Seems the cookie eating and milk drinking fall on the fellas in most households!!

        Reply
    4. Jill

      December 10, 2020 at 6:00 am

      I love reading about your traditions! We always left out cookies and carrots for Santa growing up too and carried that tradition down to our daughter. My husband used to leave boot prints from the fireplace ashes on the floor from the fireplace to the tree for her. Growing up Santa gifts were always wrapped in our family but my husbands were unwrapped. I won that one and our daughters were always wrapped. lol.

      Jill – Doused in Pink

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      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        December 14, 2020 at 1:11 pm

        So funny the compromises made around the holidays. My parents left boot prints, too, now that you mention it…at least one year!
        Thanks for reminding me of that memory.

        Reply
    5. Dara

      December 10, 2020 at 7:36 am

      My town is supposed to do a map of all the amazing lit up houses and we might check them out! Your comment on the phrase olden days reminded me of my son – he likes to say now-en days, instead of now a days!

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        December 14, 2020 at 1:08 pm

        Love that…now-en days!!

        Reply
    6. Laura Bambrick

      December 10, 2020 at 8:30 am

      This was so much fun to learn more about you! I remember in EL Paso we would always go around to the neighborhoods to see the Christmas lights. And doing the luminaria bags!

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        December 14, 2020 at 1:31 pm

        YES!!! Luminarias!! I love them so much. So El Paso! They line Rim Road with them. And cars drive up to see the luminarias and then the lights of the city below. Beautiful. Wonder if Covid will spoil that?

        Reply
    7. kirstin troyer

      December 10, 2020 at 8:37 am

      These were great. It’s always fun to learn about other people’s traditions.

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        December 14, 2020 at 1:08 pm

        Thank you! I loved reading everyone’s posts.

        Reply
    8. Deb

      December 10, 2020 at 8:53 am

      Lovely traditions – I’m sure that writing them all down brought back some great memories.
      Here in England we will be allowed to have two other family households in our homes for the days between 23 – 27 December. Tough for people who have large families, who do you choose for your two households? Plus you can only meet in your own homes, not pubs or restaurants! I’m not sure what the logic is with that part, what is the difference between eating a meal at home to eating a meal in a restaurant? You’re still indoors!

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      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        December 14, 2020 at 12:55 pm

        Goodness, it seems all logic has gone out the window when trying to deal with Covid. I hope you can both of your children and their spouses, and all 3 grandbabies with you for the holidays.

        Reply
    9. Gale

      December 10, 2020 at 4:56 pm

      This year my daughter and her family will be with us for Christmas. But I remember the first Christmas that it was just my husband and me, and it was very strange. I remember feeling very melancholy much of the day, but we got through it! So I will be thinking of you and your husband on Christmas Day, Leslie. But knowing you, I’m sure you’ll do something to make it special for just the two of you.

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        December 14, 2020 at 1:30 pm

        YAY!! So glad your daughter and fam will be with you. I spent at least one very strange, lonely Christmas in Panama. One year my (ex) husband and I went fishing because we didn’t know what else to do with ourselves.

        Reply
    10. Rebecca Jo Vincent

      December 10, 2020 at 5:08 pm

      Oh man.. the days of Christmas dresses. That was fun.

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        December 14, 2020 at 10:58 am

        I loved dressing up my babies. One year I drove everyone crazy trying to find a hair bow in the exact ivory color of my daughter’s dress. But I found it!!

        Reply
    11. Donna Connolly

      December 10, 2020 at 8:46 pm

      Love your traditions!

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        December 14, 2020 at 1:28 pm

        Thank you, Donna. Would love for you to share some of yours!!

        Reply
    12. Sarita

      December 10, 2020 at 9:00 pm

      Love reading about all of these fun traditions. I might try to join in the fun early next week! I still try to dress my girls in a Christmas outfit of sorts… My older one hesitates when it comes to dresses though LOL

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        December 14, 2020 at 10:57 am

        Oh, Sarita, nice to hear from you!! Hope you will revisit my 10 on the 10th and share your holiday traditions with us.

        Reply
    13. Jennifer Smith

      December 11, 2020 at 2:35 pm

      So many special memories you have – I think they are even nicer than the traditions themselves!! Your girls were such cuties! My mom always had matching outfits for our three kids…which was quite the challenge. And off to Olan Mills studios we would go:) Thanks for sharing your cinnamon bun recipe. I’m not much of a sweet eater but I have never turned down a cinnamon roll!!! Thanks for the link-up, friend!!

      Reply
      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        December 14, 2020 at 10:57 am

        Olan Mills!! Ha!! Haven’t thought of that in years. In Panama, when my babies were little, we didn’t have access to a professional photographer. The one picture I shared in this post with them in springy dresses was the one time the PX set up a photography studio. They didn’t have Christmas dresses so I took them in their spring hand-me-downs from my cousin.
        Thank you for joining me.

        Reply
    14. Joanne Tracey

      December 13, 2020 at 3:06 pm

      I love Christmas traditions. To this day we leave some fruitcake or Christmas cookies out for Santa – but he far prefers whisky to milk. Many of our other traditions are similar to yours – even though we’re on the other side of the world. Our Christmas tree goes up on the first Sunday in December, I generally start baking bits and pieces from then too. On Christmas morning we have potato scones (my husband’s Scottish recipe) and champagne when we open the pressies and then a swim before a late-iso lunch. The evening is always fresh prawns and leftover ham.

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      • Leslie Roberts Clingan

        December 14, 2020 at 1:29 pm

        HA HA!! I like your Santa’s style. Whisky beats milk.
        Potato scones, fresh prawns and ham…sign me up. Are the potato scones savory or sweet?

        Reply
    15. Amy Johnson

      December 14, 2020 at 3:49 pm

      What fun memories of Christmas traditions. We always watch “Elf”. We always read the Christmas Story before opening presents so the kids will know the reason we give presents in the first place. But we’ve been starting new traditions too…like driving to see the Rotary Lights every year.

      Reply
    16. April

      December 16, 2020 at 7:43 am

      I had never heard of unwrapped gifts or taking turns opening gifts until I married my husband. I can’t do not wrapping. It’s ingrained in me to wrap all the things, but I enjoy the taking turns.

      Reply

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